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Forget the Past - This is the Nonsense we learnt, which is wrong. Remember It and Learn from your Past

I wish if we had some sort of recycle bin in our real life where we could delete and get rid of people.I don’t know what to call him as a bad friend of mine or a person who just acted like a friend or if he was my enemy on no solid ground btw.  I really don’t know. But it hurts when people suddenly change for no reasons at all. Their promises become the past. But one thing I am sure is about that he was neither a friend nor an enemy. 

Then who was he?Fake friends have a quality of acting you will never understand until the moment they leave you for their own selfish reasons.I had to write about him is because I am a person who  would like to keep memories and I don’t want to forget about my past . He taught me that I am very immature in dealing with people. I blindly trust everyone and everything.I use to think sometime, certain people come to our life without any reason and they walk away without any reason. I have met many people like the ‘him’ as I don’t want to reveal his identity. To be clear, he was just a very good friend of mine and nothing more. 

I want to blog about him just to stop me from having bad thoughts and ideas that cause any destruction to anybody or to myself. When I write it means I am pouring off my sorrow and I feel better. I can completely treat him as a stranger from now. He did something that is terrible in my life .I have only one word for you dear Best F-  riend ( I intentionally put that gap between  just to make myself understand that whoever it is , keep a distance from F and End )So here is a sweet good bye to that young man, who was once my chunk, bestie, juugllee wigglee.

You are a very talented person who has a lot of dreams but remember how can a fake person ever hit the goal. You might win for now, or may be for few times but the ultimate winner would be the person who waited until the last game, learning the skills to achieve it and make it happen at the right time.Remember, I will see you as you play your game until you come to the realization that you have played on a wrong field. I wish you look back once and say what you had left behind was more precious than everything you have now.  Cheers!!!


Note: This is not a revenge post guys or a negative post , it is just  that i learned from my past. He is my teacher who taught me the lesson of betraying and how it will impact our lives. So I turned  something that hurt me badly to a new lesson. So whatever happens in your life, take it easy. Cry if you want, Share it with you family ( if you are okay) , or write it off like that and move on to the next chapter. Life has so many hidden things which you never know . Enjoy the surprises life gives you and that is what living is all about and that is how life will make meaning.Loads of lovex


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