Before I find it very hard to be happy, and I always had reasons to cry or to be worried about. Then after which a lot of changes took in my life ( which I would be describing it in my future blog posts)
changed me to a better version of myself and I kinda love myself much more.
The New Me :
- The art of tidying up ( Yes from the renowed Mary Kondo, I too learned it). I always clear up my clutter and do that once every week. If you do not know about how miraculous this thing will change your life , the read about Konmari - the life changing magic of tidying up by Ms. Mary Kondo) I feel so fresh andmy thing are all in perfect places everytime. Nothing that
- Then I deactivated my facebook and instagram ( A million worth thing I did that restored my happiness and peace)
- Cut the friends to 1 or 2, I didnt just cut, I sit and reviewed my life, like a movie reel played back and found most of them are just junk pieces of emptiness. Not loyal, not positive, just there for nothing.So I deleted and found myself amazed that none of them turned up to check what was wrong with me. Just that it is clear that they were not bothered at all.
- Then I started cooking. Home made, fresh, a good activity, feeling proud each time you cook something successfully and feed your loved ones or eat all of it by yourself. But I always love sharing it to someone so I can see the joy.
- I started writing my blog and made sure that my ideas are framed here . My thoughts will never fade away, I record and keep it here so it is a lot of happiness when I re read. At the same time, many of my friends get new ideas and becoming more positive by reading some of my articles is bringing more joy to my life.
- Now my challenge is to make over myself, reduce weight, and to find out a regular work out plan to keep me fit and healthy.
- Lastly, I started to enjoy small things in my life . I started to enjoy the sitting at the park, reading a good book, having a skype chat with my sister in uk, visiting church, temple, and trying new food and travelling without updating them on any social media.
It's right
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