Berry's girl - Sprinkle Happiness As You Go

DO WHAT FEARS YOU I cannot beileve myself, when I found out that I am afraid of many things apart from butterflies. The New term I got is acrophobic .  it is cool when I use such scientific terms . Because of this I am unable to enjoy many of the beautiful adventurous things in the world. I wanted to go for sky diving,bungee jumping ,roller coster rides woooohh.. no way… I cannot. Something is resisting me from getting them  This butterfly effect is gonna drive  me crazy. Yesterday  ,I somehow managed to get into a  small rollercoster , just to start  getting used to heights and get  rid of my fear and there comes the butterflies in my tummy. ‘Experiments have shown that infants and young children are naturally cautious around heights. This suggests that people are born with a dislike of heights’ So this is what I was talking all about,Acrophobia.Are you afraid of the heights just like me ?

Creek Riderz, Memories for a life time.  We all met unexpectedly, and became very close in seconds. Introducing the Gang, I will start with my bestie Levin. Levin Short, Fair n Handsome guy, who was my classmate when I was doing my graduation. We were not very close then. He was the silent snail, slow slow and really slow. I used to "never bothered" about him actually. LOL. But when I came to know that he is coming to Dubai, I was in full of joy, and I still do not why I felt very special that I am gonna get one of my classmates here. I had so many plans for taking him around. I still remember that day I met him after 4 years at Deira City Center Mall . He was waiting for me, outside the mall and I took him to Starbucks Cafe for a coffee. They forgot to put sugar and poor Levi he just drank it full saying its fine. Ha Ha okay so this is just the beginning. But then gradually he became my best best best friend. ( Excusing that he cheated me few times) even ...

One fine day, Mr.V took me for a ride, something unplanned and unexpected. He took me to a greener place . I mean, in Dubai, I never expected to see so much green, come on its a desert. Yes, you can see few plants here and there or some garden but not a dense forest like this. I couldn't believe my eyes when he took a turn and dived in to a road that was so empty, quiet and refreshingly green with two sides of the road full of big bushy trees, and grass. I was literally OMG! I looked him with sparkling eyes full of green, what a breathtaking view? I am sorry, i forgot to tell you all that we were in Al Barari - in Dubai. A best place to spend some healthy time with family and friends. He took me to the best place. He always does that to my  endless surprises.Al Barari is must visit place, if you visit Dubai. ( " The Al Barari community was designed with the Zaal family’s Arabic heritage in mind from its renowned beautiful gardens to the Islamic-inspired architecture ...

Before I find it very hard to be happy, and I always had reasons to cry or to be worried about. Then after which a lot of changes took in my life ( which I would be describing it in my future blog posts) changed me to a better version of myself and I kinda love myself much more. The New Me : The art of tidying up ( Yes from the renowed Mary Kondo, I too learned it). I always clear up my clutter and do that once every week. If you do not know about how miraculous this thing will change your life , the read about Konmari - the life changing magic of tidying up by Ms. Mary Kondo) I feel so fresh andmy thing are all in perfect places everytime. Nothing that  Then I deactivated my facebook and instagram ( A million worth thing I did that restored my happiness and peace) Cut the friends to 1 or 2, I didnt just cut, I sit and reviewed my life, like a movie reel played back and found most of them are just junk pieces of emptiness. Not loyal, not positive, just there for nothin...

Ticket cost 90 aed ( I got it directly from there , so no discounts on the tickets, but you may check on groupon, cobone sites were you might get some offers here) I was pretty much excited from the moment I heard about green planet in City Walk, Dubai. She is the first person who you will see as soon as you enter, she sits there , jumping from one branch to another but not flying or moving very fast. I think she was just awake when me and my friends arrived. I was excited to see a bird freely sitting at the reception area without nobody watching her or controlling her behaviors. They are just free :) When I got it I looked up and understood that the green planet is an artificial rainforest and has three floors ( layers on on top of each other) You will start from a water pond with variety of fish. Taking the lift upward will take you to the below floor. Where you see an entire big tree inhabited by various species of animal kingdom.It is not like a zoo where the...

I kept three glasses of home made wines diagonally behind the red center strip that i placed. ( To be honest its not wine:D coke ) I got a light chain from my nephews bedroom and put in around the window. Lights off. Candles On....ZZZZZZZZZ HAPPY NEW YEAR I bought a plum cake and put number candles on top of it. Then placed it on a white plate so it stand out yum. Put a round of handful of fruit chocolate around it to add some color & the cake is done. I didn't spend much on my new year decor. I put a white table cloth on my dinner table , over it I put my red duppata in the middle fodled. Over it I placed one bowl of apples red and some festive leaves to the sides to give it an elegant look. And on the sides a plate of cookies and bounties ( my favorites). Tada done! & This is how I welcomed 2017 . 

Love him like how you will love yourself. This is what I do . I love myself too much and this love is what I am showering to him.  There is no judgement, no bias , no arguments but just love. Life is the shortest journey that we are boarded on by the creator. Everything that we see, enjoy,cherish will fade away one day or at any moment of time. The problem with people is that very few understand what I said above. Time is something we are not sure about. You do not know if you will be hit by a car when you go home after work, You are living a unpredictable life. So things have to be taken gently. Good or Bad its all the same. We will face everything here itself. We are carrying a burden of expectations  and drag it to wherever we go and will put us in pressure very single second. Only love can change the world. If you have enemy, she or he cannot resist u if you start smiling at them or showing no anger at any of their  actions. Remember , I had written about anger...

Yes it is hard, painful and uncomfortable for a week. And that too every month, 12 weeks in a year,84 days of continuous bleeding. The stains were a nightmare ONCE UPON A TIME on January 3rd xxyydd (forgot the year blaaaa!!! )  Hmmm....I still remember the day that cried loudly from my shower seeing those tricky spots. My mom came to the bathroom as if she knew it already, as if she expected to hear this. It's okay okay. Amma is here mole (mole - daughter), nothing to panic. She shook her hands with me and said congratulations. I was like 'Urgggg , am bleeding here and you are congratulating me on that. How weird is that? Then she washed me, and taught me how to keep the sanitary napkin and advised me that I am entering to my teenage and you have become a woman. I didn't get it then. But then one by one my classmates have also seen to be shy those days. So its not only for me but for every girls . So let me leave the story there for now, and come to my point that i...

The title for my today's article is something that I give full credits to my school friend Anoopa. While scrolling through my blogger friends profiles, I came across her blog " Writers Cafeteria". I ma not sure how many of you might have been subscribed to her blog. I just simply love it. She is actually an inspiration to me, and I really appreciate Anu for all her efforts in maintain the consistency and clarity of all the post. The title lines are from her post called "Painting my dreams". and this statement from her post particularly triggered my mind to write about it. For the very first reason, this is so true in our lives. We cannot buy happiness. My only intention when I made this blog is to help people create it. As I can see most of the people are searching for it through several activities, at the end of the day they get exhausted and not happy. They buy I phone new edition, upgrades of their gadgets, buy luxurious things and whatttttttttttttttttt...

Hello my dear JellyBellos, Today I want to introduce you to Mr. Bubble.( Mr. Bubble Trouble)  He is actually kinda a trouble maker.But I  loved him for the day just because he  lifted my bad mood. Sometimes I am like that, I just feel so empty for no reason. I think over and over in my workplace, what could be the reason for that. I hate to feel the feeling of no feelings at all. I hope some of  you might also have such mood swings. I started my day happily and was a good start on a bright sunny day here in Dubai. But after few hours of reaching my office, I started turning pale for no reason at all. You feel like you are surrounded by dementors.  You know, those foul creatures from Harry Potter series, who will feed on your happiness. I felt just like that. Something , is draining out all my energy, happiness that I very well had in the morning . Ufffff!!!! What do I do? I sit there and opened by Owl Diary and started to draw something, just to feel a ...

I wish if we had some sort of recycle bin in our real life where we could delete and get rid of people. I don’t know what to call him as a bad friend of mine or a person who just acted like a friend or if he was my enemy on no solid ground btw.  I really don’t know. But it hurts when people suddenly change for no reasons at all. Their promises become the past. But one thing I am sure is about that he was neither a friend nor an enemy.  Then who was he?Fake friends have a quality of acting you will never understand until the moment they leave you for their own selfish reasons.I had to write about him is because I am a person who  would like to keep memories and I don’t want to forget about my past . He taught me that I am very immature in dealing with people. I blindly trust everyone and everything.I use to think sometime, certain people come to our life without any reason and they walk away without any reason. I have met many people like the ‘him’ as I don’t want to...

In the shower I cry So, No one will hear me. In the rain I walk, So, No one could catch my tears. I might miss your touch But,Never the warmth of your body!

You are a part of my life Oh no you are my life itself. It’s very difficult to read you, dear You are the secret of secrets, that I keep You are the Key to my heart cellar. I have recorded in my soul, All your heart movements & Those tiny invisible signs that you carved on my  body  with your eyes Is the pathway to  reach there & your love for me is the only thing that can go through it   Thus , together we become ‘The temple of love’ I am a rose growing up in your rock like heart inside you Attached to your chest bones cz,you brought me to myself, took me back to my world, put my broken heart together, &  made me smile again Thus I will be there living for you dedicating and loving you every moment of this life. Spreading  sweet fragrance always around you Hey , If you ever miss miss me, just look inside you, and  I am there ....  

pic credit - Glogster Not a joke! Are you a person who gets angry? I mean are you that red soul on fire, who is a short tempered monster ?   If you ask me if I every get angry, or If I am a short tempered one , YES. It’s a BIG yes. Now you might think what is the big deal in it?There is a lot.  I was a person who was open; (I repeat I 'was') I used to speak what I feel at the moment. I don’t hide any of my feelings and let it out, at a later stage. I thought that this is a beautiful attitude on me and many people say that it’s a great character. But, in reality it will kill relationships because of your straight forward reactions to everything. There is no right or wrong in the scene, it is just how to deal with your anger. Sometimes, just because of your anger, you may fail to prove your side which is right ;) Now here is an activity for you to control down your short tempering moments in life. Write down on a note, things that make you more annoyed, irri...

This is one of my task under 'happiness project' that anyone could start in a matter of seconds. It will double your happiness in the beginning of your next year. Its not just money that you save but some happiness too. Things Required : A glass jar Lights ( Not necessary but I just wanted to light up ;) ) Sticky Notes Pen All you have to do is to write down all the good moments separately on different sticky notes or small chits of paper. I always prefer colored papers to add some fun to my happy jar. You can be as creative as you want, because this is all yours. Loads of happiness packed. Write one incident/event/ or anything that made you happy in a note and roll it out to hide it and put it inside your happy jar. Continue this every time a happy moment come. Write it down and put it there. You will only open this in the New Year Day. or If you feel very low about your self or on a very unhappy day, just look at this jar and you will realize how ...